The other day, or the other week, or fortnight, or whatever completely irrelevant measurement of time you want to imagine for this part of the post, I was dicking around in front of the local redbox, using the search function to look for hardcore gay erotica, as I usually do, when I came upon one…
Girls can wear jeans, cut their hair short, wear shirts and boots, ‘cause it’s OK to be a boy… but for a boy to look like a girl is degrading, ‘cause you think that being a girl is degrading. But secretly, you’d love to know what it’s like, wouldn’t you? What it feels like for a girl [The Cement Garden, 1993]
never knew this was sampled from a movie, and spoken by Charlotte Gainsbourg of all people <3
The MDNA tour was amazing. Madonna was funny, energetic, amazing, on point, and just all around great. Dancing and singing along to Like A Prayer with my own mother was an indescribable 5 minutes and I swear I felt like I could do anything. I can’t express just how happy I am that I got to see Madonna live in concert. Fuck.
June 1987, Madonna was rushed to the Cedars Sinai hospital for an X-ray after her then-husband—Sean Penn hit her across the head with a baseball bat. At the time, they had been having a heart-to-heart talk about reconciling.
Madonna did not make an official complaint because Penn was about to serve a short jail term for attacking a film extra and violating the probation he’d been given for punching a fan. It was a decision she would come to regret. In the late afternoon of December 28, 1988, Penn scaled the wall surrounding the Malibu house and found Madonna alone in the master bedroom.
According to a report filed by Madonna with the Malibu sheriff’s office, the two began to quarrel. Penn told her he owned her “lock, stock and barrel”. When she told him she was leaving the house, he tried to bind her hands with an electric cord. Screaming and afraid, Madonna fled from the bedroom. Penn chased her into the living room, caught her and bound her to a chair with heavy twine. Then he threatened to shave her hair. Penn was “drinking liquor straight from the bottle” and the abuse went on for nine hours, during which he smacked and forced Madonna to perform a “degrading sex act” on him.
He went out to buy more alcohol, leaving Madonna bound and gagged. Some hours later, he returned and continued his attacks, then finally untied her. Madonna then fled the house and ran to her car. Penn ran after her and was banging on the windows of her Thunderbird while she spoke to police on her mobile phone. Fifteen minutes later, she staggered into the sheriff’s office.